the more time i get to think... the more i understand about myself.
and i've come to the conclusion that uhhhm... i'm not
the nicest person.
but not only am i not a nice person... i
also realized most of my friends aren't either!
lol this junk really is
crazy cuz me and my closest buddies all have the same outlook on the way most situations should be handled.
sounds gay. but i know if u knew us, you'd understand. and if you have a
close ass group of friends... you'll for sure understand.
anyways, i've been annoyed lately
(surprise surpriiiise)not even on some conceited/asshole/conceited asshole shit, but i
really get annoyed when dudes (guys, men, boys) constantly remind me how they feel about me.
this is not to say that i don't enjoy the occas
sional (frequent) compliment, cuz i DEFINITELY do, but that's about as far as i like it to go
unless the feelings are mutual.
to be quite honest, there are several dudes that i talk to on a regular basis. not because i plan on
doing all of em, but cuz they're cool ass people who i like to be around and kickit with...
what i've noticed lately tho is that it seems t
o be the thing for dudes to express their feelings now... i'm tryna figure out when that became acceptable... cuz last time i checked,
girls were supposed to be the ones simpin and shit... not only that, but it just seems like people forget what can happen to a friendship after all that shit
anyways. i'm so sure i'm not the only one who gets irked by situations like this. in my opinion, if we're
friends, we're
friends. unless there's a CLEAR ASS interest shown from both parties, any feelings that may have developed over the span of our friendship should really be kept in unless you're willing to deal with the tension/awkwardness/avoidance that comes afterwards.
-laterr