i have 5 'best friends' that i will love til i effin die. i put 'best friends' in quotations ONLY because i feel gay as hell saying that term. i refer to em as my breezies, buddies, boppuhs, etc... so anyways, yeah. they're the ones who i can relate to when it comes to ANY subject... i'm super effin blessed to have them, but that's on some other shit; i'll save that for another day.
i think one of the reasons we're so close is that we see things in pretty much the exact same light... to be more specific, Attanigga, J and I pretty much have the same BRAIN when it comes to situations concerning guys. i honestly think it's our mindset that leads us to have so many close ass guy friends... i never thought abt it til i got to SD and realized some girls REALLY have noooo idea how to just sit back and calm the eff down... smh...
take this for example...
J and I had a session last night... she had a missed call from her sister... so after the session she calls her back and whatnot... and her sister is friggin bawwwwwling... she's cryin over her boyfriend... it's a saturday night and he's out with his friends, meanwhile she's having like, the worst night of her life... she calls him to talk to him about it in hopes of having a deep-ish discussion... she said when she called, he was consoling her and whatnot, but it sounded like she was being rushed off the phone. so that really hurt her feelings, made her mad, etc and she came to the conclusion that he's a super inconsiderate jerk and she definitely has the right to be upset at him... mmk.
so J... being the 'BAUCE' that she is, shares a bit of knowledge and reasoning that i noticed just happens to be stored in our minds naturally...
after several minutes of trying to calm her down she's like
"aye. u just gotta realize that girls and dudes are different. you can't expect him to react the same way u would in a situation. in his mind, he was being REAL considerate just by answering your call on a saturday night while he's out with his friends in the first place... on TOP of pausing his night, he attempts to calm u down and make u feel better instead of just sayin 'lemme call u back'... of course you're gonna be rushed off the phone, who would wanna have a deep ass discussion on a saturday night while they're out with their buddies and shit? ur trippen right now, just go to sleep."
i was sittin there posted like damn... most girls really DO act just like the ones that movies, shows, magazines, etc make fun of... helllllllla over-analyzing shit and getting butthurt super easily over small junk...
i'd like to thank the budduh and my role as the youngest child for my 'uhmm... fuck it' mindset... it's gotten me thus far, but probably led to the end of my last non-one-night 'romance'... my super understanding of other ppls' point of view most likely caused this feller to wanna see exactly where his limits were... in his mind i'm soooo sure he thought
'she's tight, she's not gonna trip if i bluh bluh bluh bluh bluh....'
in the words of Attanigga, most of the time 'i'm not trippen *shoulder shrug*' but everyone has a limit, no matter how much 'fuck it' they got in their system... the uncrossable 'line' just isn't visible upon first meeting me and my breezies... but those people who do know us super thoroughly know that yea.... 9 times outta 10 we're not trippen.
woooo. alright. lemme sit back now.
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