SD Makes Me Think... Pt. 2

my 'i'm thinking soooo hard' face...

man. this subject has crossed my mind like once a day for the past few years... lemme see if this junk can be verbalized..../typed.....

so as the good ol social construct goes: if you're a female and have 'a lot' of sex (who even came up with a sex measurement scale?) ... you're a hoe... however, if you're a male and have an equal amount of sex... you're just... doin you...

this always leads me to think about the difference between--for lack of a better, less played out word-- a 'player' and a 'hoe'. the former usually referring to males and the latter... females.

i guess what frustrates me is that these labels aren't going anywhere anytime soon.

say an attractive male and fine female meet, start talkin and realize they're diggin each other... but in the back of their minds, BOTH of them just wanna fuck. they don't speak on their intentions, but treat it just like any other 'boy meets girl' type situation... eventually, they fuck and slowly stop talking exclusively. neither of them are upset... matter of fact, both are quite content with the 'work' aaaand move on with whatever it was they were doing prior to meeting...

despite their parallel motives... to an outsider's eyes, it'll just look like the girl is a lowkey hoe OR the dude musta had helllllla game in order to get her to fuck that easily.

what im gettin at is that when it comes to females enjoying and exploring sex, no positive light is ever shone on them (us)... instead, negativity from others is attatched, somewhat expected and even worse, silently accepted.

sooooo i say.... fuck that...

if a dude and i get to 'workin' after only knowin each other for a short period of time, guaranteed his friends are gonna be slightly juiced, but at the same time, so are my buddies... we actually talk abt sexxin more than most males do... for example... a typical sunday night conversation:

		chiiilbeeeitch:				he better come thru while junk is freshly shaved and moisturized
		im tight cuh:				im saaayin tho Lol
		im tight cuh:				he won't be suckin titties if he doesn't come thru
		im tight cuh:				imma be like nah fuck that Lol
		chiiilbeeeitch:				lmao
		chiiilbeeeitch:				man titty suckin is only good like half the time
		chiiilbeeeitch:				that shit is a risk
		chiiilbeeeitch:				damn b cup boobies
		im tight cuh:				yeaa I feel u sometimes I'm like hmm okay this is wack lets move on
		chiiilbeeeitch:				lmao oh ok i thought big boobs meant guaranteed pleasure
		chiiilbeeeitch:				sometimes its tight, but it can go wrong easily
		chiiilbeeeitch:				and quickly
		chiiilbeeeitch:				and frequently
		im tight cuh:				nah it doesn't girl Lol
		im tight cuh:				like they have to hit the riiiight spot
		im tight cuh:				its more pleasure for them than us I think
		chiiilbeeeitch:				sooo they think sucking and tongue flickering feels bomb... lmao poor them
		im tight cuh:				I dunno its wutever to me Lol
		im tight cuh:				I be thinkin I am not ur mama
		im tight cuh:				get off my titties
		chiiilbeeeitch:				lmao
		im tight cuh:				Lol
		chiiilbeeeitch:				exactly
		im tight cuh:				______ was goin to wooork on my shit
		chiiilbeeeitch:				lmao was it tight?
		im tight cuh:				nah I thought he was dyin like he couldn't breath or sumshit. like i had to lift his head up to focus on other shit
		im tight cuh:				and he went right back down
		im tight cuh:				it was funny Lol
		chiiilbeeeitch:				lmaoooooo
		chiiilbeeeitch:				that shit is jokes
		chiiilbeeeitch:				they just get too juiced... smh...

maybe me and my buddies are rare breeds... but for those who don't wanna bother seeing things in a different light... i guess we're just a classic example of some LA hoes...