Yay For 3 Day Weekends... 'Yaaay!'

i had a verrrry good weekend at home in LA with my favorite nigga.
it seems like we did everything without really doing anything.

i swear we laid up in my bed the whole weekend... well at least inbetween meals... for 2 broke niggas, we definitely lived it up in that house....

lol random ass weekend menu consisted of him making fettuccine shrimp alfredo... the next morning i made cheesy eggs and cheese fries... hahah random as hell... but uhmm, grocery money was non-existent. shrimp chow mien and stir fry for lunch (again, that was alll me)... and some dollar menu items for dinner that night... lol smh at us... but that explains that tweet i sent out...

(thanks, @jdaflip... we definitely went to McDonald's...)

lol the next day (today...) we collaborated and made a bomb ass lunch cuz our lazy asses woke up so late.... no time for breakfast.... chicken strips, fried shrimp and rice. it was sooo good. and i believe he knew my shrimp won...

shit was goin real cool til my GRANDPARENTS walked into the house while we were in the kitchen and all i was wearing was a hoodie and UNDIES..... : /

smh... lmao man oh man.... that shit was so unexpected... but shit definitely coulda been worse. what if we were both ass naked standin in the kitchen frying up some chicken and shrimp.... smh... i don't even wanna think about it...

hahah.... i had a cool ass weekend with this dude tho; i really love him :)

....even tho we had to fight a few times.... that nigga.

on a more blog-ish note...

i know a lot of people admire what we have...

this weekend was the first time i thought about the possibility of growing used to having someone loving you unconditionally. by growing used to i mean, the same way you can get used to your brand new puppy greeting you everyday as you get home... corny ass analogy... but it's simple enough...

so this puppy:

it's cute as fuck...
and when you first get the little thing it's always on your mind...
but then at some point that shit becomes routine...
like alright... when i open this door, my dog's gonna come out, imma greet her, and imma keep walkin into the house... i'm not gonna post up and play with her, she's a cool ass dog, she knows i love her and shit....
and then naturally there are gonna be those days when you don't even feel like having dog-breath hands... so u don't fuck with it.

i guess dogs can notice just like people do, when love's luster becomes a little duller. and speaking as an ex-dog owner....[ RIP HONEY :( ] it doesn't mean the care isn't there... but shit, something's missing... and most people, like dogs, just get used to that shit... and adjust knowing things aren't the same... because what can be done unless there's effort shown from both parties...?

i don't know...

i feel selfish even thinking of this. it's just something that crossed my mind.

what i'm asking is... is love comparable to a new puppy? can two people grow so used to being in love that the spark seems more like a routine lighter fluid check...?

i know everyone's love is different... but obviously love has its common denominators among all people and all relationships...

personally, i'm glad i still feel the way i do about this dude. so though i blogged about it, this isn't an issue for me... sorry if this was anticlimactic for any nay-sayer-readers of mine.. maybe next time...

anyways... this song pretty much sums up how i feel about this dude who's clearly my favorite

"nothing's wrong... you're a beautiful problem" ♥